Mehwish's Blog

Why positivity is needed?  When we highlight everything that is going wrong in our world. It is important to project positivity...through small acts to show care for each other. Becoming good human is necessary...it help in improving life. When you become good human...everything starts to fall in place. It starts with you and ends with you. If you try to be a good human being by showing care and concern for others. It helps you grow and improve yourself.

Understanding is rare and there are many who know us. Knowing is generic and mostly based on assumptions....that may not not be true. It is not difficult...but requires effort from those who say they know you. It means they try to understand your reasons...why you say or act in certain way. Everybody life journey is full of highs and lows. But instead of understanding that we all face hardships...even then make it difficult for each other. We all have to go through hardships and it’s not small or big. When will we stop making things difficult for each other by calling that’s how world works. We can help each other by understanding their problems. It help us grow and become a better human being.

Watching feather swaying in wind Thinking life is similar to feather Where you have to keep balance  Not getting off balance with wind Keeping yourself intact in the odds With patience and believe in yourself 

Testing people patience is something that should be discouraged. Why can’t we learn to be kind towards others? It won’t take much to be gentle each other. It is important to try not to get on neves of others. It is a bad behaviour justified in the name of just joking. You cannot be inhumane towards because you see your weakness in form of strengths in others.

If you are writing on certain things and—some people try to use to it against you. It is a insecurity....just because you are not writing and other is writing doesn’t give you right to start trolling them. It’s okay to disagree respectfully....but making personal attacks reflect your weakness. We are all flawed. It should not be used to troll people on internet. They need to get a life. Stop trolling on internet! 

Putting your feet in water and splashing it Reminds me of good times in childhood When playing with water was joyous  Small things used to make you giggle

I wonder humans are strange in their understanding. People who are sensitive called as snow flakes—instead of appreciating it. In that case, people who label you as snow flake are insensitive. It is strange logic —if you show sensitivity you are too soft...or naive because you feel deeply and care about others. Sensitive people are needed to sensitise people towards cruelty...which should not be promoted in name of that how world works? It is important to care for other people.

Turning into person you always want to be...is not something that is difficult. It requires effort and constant reminder that all in your hand. You need to change your mindset —and you will get to know you in better way. We tend to focus more on becoming...somebody else rather ourselves.

Seeing what is not visible to eye Finding things not known before Turning to your inner calling more Not hearing what’s not true to you Making your own way by yourself

Inhumane behaviour in the name of office politics is not acceptable. If you are justifying being mean to people at work....by giving it a name of competition....it’s not healthy. Competition should be on work not...comparing each other at individual level or personally. Stepping on others will not take you anywhere...and makes you weak as person. You become insecure—if you make personal attack on other people at work.

When your heart and mind are in sync with each other. It helps you stay balance with yourself and never let you get lost. Then your connection with God is equally important....that is important step in attaining  peace with yourself. Having said that! A serious effort is needed on your part—by making choices which brings more contentment in your life.

Humming to myself!!! Thoughts that I hold close to myself Not letting go things that makes me Standing my ground on my values Respecting others views and perceptions Becoming more me everyday on purpose Not letting negativities lose hope in good

Becoming a better human is something that is taught to us all since school. But it is something that is missing in our life to large extent. Many people will say that we know but mostly they judge others instead of correcting them. If you are good human only then—you can appreciate others around you—who are doing things.....on their pace and terms. We need to keep reminding ourselves that becoming better human....is essential for our existence.

Saying no is important for your own sake. It is equally important like saying yes—to things you agree. It is okay to disagree with respect—and not doing what doesn’t coincide with your beliefs and values. It is needed for our emotional and mental health. No is a small word but can impact us enormously.....if it is not use to refuse anything...that is not in our best interest can damage us in so many ways.

Knowledge is something that shape our mind but in age of information there is asymmetry. The likely chances of misinformation has increased. It is difficult to prevent misinformation or distortion of knowledge. The copyrights have become major issue...because of internet despite its advantages. 

Seeing world through different lens....imagining a place where we help each other grow rather than....hiding our inadequacy—by pointing mistakes in others. We all are imperfect in so many ways. There is nothing wrong with it....but it should not be used to feed on weakness of others....or finding flaws of people.

Resilience is not something that is alien to us. Like tree branches they learn to stand in storm. Humans become resilient through their thought process.... and take it as a part of learning journey. Hardships teach us....how to stand tall in face of any difficulty?

Creating a ripple effect of optimism is required in our life. It is not hard to achieve, but requires inner work....demands efforts on your part. When we spread optimism and hope....it transform our lives. Don’t despair!! Shift your focus from negativity towards brighter side of life. Change your perspective to paint a beautiful picture of life.

Newness comes from creative mindset. It usually,lie in an idea that is not considered plausible in first place. I wonder who get to draw line between implausibility and plausibility? Many ideas are rejected on this notion......that it is crazy. If something is unique....it doesn’t means it is not right.

Understanding life is not difficult....it’s the mindset towards life that makes it difficult. Problems itself are not big....if your approach is to address it....you will end up finding solutions. Mindset drives you to see things from different lens.Like it is often said that it’s a matter of perspective.

Looking out for truth...it was in you all this time. When you are roaming around to search for it. Isn’t it strange....you search for yourself outside.....instead of searching within where it all begins. Find yourself in you not outside or in others. Your true self is within....reach out for it.

Self correction is similar to a process of getting rid of weeds. It is tedious process that starts with realisation...there is a room for improvement. It is a continuous process. Every day gives you a chance to see yourself....and correct you. We need to get rid of everything.....that no longer make us a better person. It is never ending process of growth for humans since their birth.

Sand is a substance for growth, which nurtures everything. It gives new life to seedling...sometimes by decomposing or replanting.Unlike some people...instead of helping others to bloom suppress them to feel more secure. It is absurd: they need to learn from flowers. How they bloom without causing harm to other flowers? Let’s encourage each other.

Smell of sand when rain falls on it...makes you feel good. It connects us to nature in a way that you get lost in it. The linkage of humans and nature is there since their origin. Nature helps us in forgetting worries by distracting our attention to different creations on the universe other than humans.

Feeding on other people insecurities will not take you anywhere. It makes you a bad person by decreasing your value as human. Let’s build each other up...to feel more secure in ourselves instead of getting insecure. Stop finding flaws in others and start correcting ourselves to become a better person.

The feeling you get when you know what you are aiming at.....and have a sense of purpose. It is similar to knowing your life purpose. Meaningfulness in life is essential for your growth. Insecurities usually are product of lack of meaning in life. People who don’t have sense of meaning in their life end up...getting insecure from others who have sense of meaning in their life.

Wind is blowing dry leaves that are falling from trees.The sound of these dry leaves is amusing and remind us....that everything has its ending and beginning. In the same manner...humans have to face their share of good and bad times. It helps them in revamping their life. The purpose of this journey....is to make you the best version of yourself.

Growth is not limited to surface only. Mostly it is deeper and enriched internally. Every person who is doing well has more internal growth.......than what is seen on outer surface. It’s like seedling at surface level......is a little sprout but has deep roots in soil. Humans are similar in terms,of their growth they have deep roots within.....over what is visible at surface level. Growth is long and slow process which takes time.

Sitting under sunlight watching sun beams fall on everything....make it look brighter. It reminds us that there is hope and sun shine in life...Sun rise up with all its glory everyday. There is optimism and hope.